Western Family Forum Program

Darrin Parkin, Spiritual Care Clinician / Conference speaker

In this workshop, we will discuss the topic of what is often referred to as “complicated grief.” Recognizing that, by nature, all grief is complex and complicated, we want to examine the various ways in which grief can have multiple layers of complexity due to different human responses to pain and tragedy, as well as historical or familial beliefs about death and grief. We will discuss a unique type of grief I call “boomerang grief” and how it is often present in families who connect with Threads of Life. If grief for you has in any way been “complicated,” then we welcome you especially to this workshop.

Mark Shelvock, Registered Psychotherapist, Certified Thanatologist, Adjunct Professor, Author, PhD Student

Family dynamics can complicate the natural and instinctive grieving process for an individual. While people grieve differently, this can lead to significant relational tensions among family members. As such, this workshop provides psychoeducation on the intersections between grief, relationships, and attachment theory [the science behind connection/love]. The presentation is facilitated by a registered psychotherapist who specializes in trauma, grief, and complicated relationships. Practical tips for surviving your least favourite family members are included.

Tammy Costa, Trauma and Addictions Specialist / Therapist 

In this workshop, you will learn the basics and beginning stages of beadwork. Beadwork has been used for decades in treatment facilities to occupy the mind and change one’s thoughts from negative to positive. Therapists have found, through years of study, that when one occupies the mind with crafting and creating, it can change one’s feelings from negative to positive, leaving a person with feelings of accomplishment and pride. Beadwork is unique to the creator. The colours used reflect the feeling within. Each colour has a different meaning; for example, purple is associated with healing, and black represents deep sadness. Bright and vibrant colours reflect joy and excitement. In this workshop, we will also have an open discussion about the things people do, including some negative or positive acts that you’ve performed when you’ve been sad and depressed, and what you could do differently to help you turn a negative act into a positive one. All necessary supplies will be available in the workshop, so there is no need to bring or purchase anything.

Elaine Cheung, Counselling Therapist and Certified Music Therapist

Music can be a profound tool to help express and process grief, loss, and change. It can also bring up difficult memories and uncomfortable emotions. Attendees will learn the ways in which music affects us and participate in various music experiences that may be helpful wherever they are on their grief journey.